Ep 55: Healing Through Words; Guest Melissa Desveaux on Writing, Grief, and Finding Support
Welcome to another heartfelt episode of the What I Wish I Knew After Pregnancy Loss podcast. In this episode, we sit down with the inspiring Melissa Desveaux, a mother of two boys and four angel babies, who resides in Sydney with her family.
Melissa is not only a devoted mother but also a best-selling author of seven books and an author consultant who helps others share their stories and make an impact in the world. Melissa opens up about her journey through multiple pregnancy losses, starting with her first miscarriage in 2017, followed by a stillbirth a year later.
She candidly shares the emotional turmoil she faced, from the fear and heartbreak of her initial loss to the profound impact of knowing her daughter wasn't growing during the final weeks of her pregnancy.
Melissa describes how journaling and creating memory albums became a crucial part of her healing process. She continues by discussing the challenges and emotional toll of subsequent miscarriages and the joy of finally welcoming her two boys into the world.
Through her experiences, Melissa found solace and healing in writing, which led her to create a series of compilation books titled "Letters of Love" that offer a voice to other mothers who have faced similar losses.
She explains the therapeutic power of journaling and how her journals, designed to guide women through their emotions over 30 days, can help them understand their grief and healing journey.
Melissa also highlights the importance of finding support, whether through writing, talking to someone, or reaching out to supportive networks like the Pink Elephant Support Network. She emphasises that while writing can be a powerful tool for healing, it is essential to seek professional help if needed. As the conversation unfolds,
Melissa shares her plans to create thoughtful sympathy and remembrance cards tailored specifically for those who have experienced pregnancy loss, providing a meaningful way for friends and family to show their support.
She reflects on the things she wishes she had known during her losses, such as understanding medical procedures and knowing what resources were available. Melissa's story is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the transformative power of sharing one's journey.
Through her books, journals, and upcoming projects, she continues to offer comfort and support to those navigating the difficult path of pregnancy loss. To connect with Melissa and explore her work, visit her website:
Facebook.com/melissadesveauxbooks
Www.melissadesveaux.com
For those seeking guidance and support, this episode is a reminder that you are not alone, and there are resources and communities ready to help you through your healing journey. Thank you for tuning in, and if you found this episode valuable, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts. We look forward to supporting you in the next episode.
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